Hi, Fundinn here. Here is some background before I start talking about my goals / aspirations. My current reality is as follows: I am in my late twenties, jobless living at my mothers place. I have spent about 80% of my income(when I worked) into traveling. I always had this idea that investing in myself was more important than having material goods. I spent the last five years boxing, reading books and traveling. I would say that I am anti-conformist, I don't believe in working an 8 to 5 job and I would see that as wasting my potential. I graduated in software engineering and also joined groups for public speaking practice and meet-ups about making a positive change in our lives. I go out almost every weekend with an old roommate who somehow managed to consistently bring women home. I quickly made it clear that I had my issues with women and that I wanted him to give me tips. It's an on-going process, but I've learned a couple of things from him. I don't put him on a pedestal, but he gets results and that matters. As for my goals and aspirations here they are: 1 - I want to build an online product(beta) by february that will generate an income stream. 2 - I want to get my fitness back after a long backpacking trip. 3 - Work on conflict-aversion*. I feel allergic to conflict. 3.1 - Be clearer in relationships, have more relationships and be with quality women.* 4 - I am inconsistent in approaching. * This is a big one for me, it's hard for me to deal with issues even if I know that it can alleviate a ton of misunderstanding later on. ** I've had nice opportunities with women, that I let go because I played the uninterested game too long. It's BS on my part. Tasks that are on-going and supporting my main goals: - Read one insightful book per two weeks. (I put an emphasis on practice so some books take more out of me). - Consciously demonstrate more assertiveness, nail it's definition into my head. - Been swimming 3 times a week. - I have a journal of any interesting interaction I have with women***. - Expand my network, touch base with old acquaintances. - Taking an intensive website building class on line to support this product I want to build. *** I don't care if their friends, potential partners or one night stands. Thanks for reading, I look forward to partaking in the community. P.S I realize I put a lot of stuff here, I will post in the brainstorming forums, but this is my current reality.