Goal, Action Statement and Completion Date: I will be in sexual relations with 2 girls simultaneously (well, not at the same minute - although I wouldn't turn down a threesome with 2 birds). I will achieve this by approaching 10 girls a week. The goal must be completed by January 1st, 2019. Action Steps: - Approach 10 girls a week. 5 of these approaches must be direct. The other 5 can be either direct or indirect. An indirect approach can anything where I initiate a conversation with a girl - this includes girls at pre-drinks, when in the company of friends, etc.; it simply means I'll be interacting with at least 10 new girls each week. But 5 must be direct cold-approaches in the day, which is the most challenging part. - Join at least 3 societies at Uni. Uni starts in just under a month, and societies will be my best shot at easily/comfortable meeting new friends and new girls. So I'm pretty set on the above being the goal. Last year I set myself the goal of actually spinning plates by the time I finish Year 3 at Uni. 'Spinning plates' is something I learned about on TRP and I recall my initial Bluepill resistance upon this learning. Why not 1 at a time, while seeing if each flourishes into a relationship? I spent all the healthy months of my last relationship wondering 'should I be in this relationship?' I knew I was restricting my growth (I am still not fully accepting and comfortable with my sexuality) and slowly becoming complacent. Something like "the worst number of women to be fucking is one" is what I read earlier this year, and has stuck in my head ever since. Of course, this is completely subjective, but I definitely do not want a monogamous relationship at my current point in life. I believe that, once I start seeing one girl, I'll be more encouraged to start seeing another, as I'm fearful that I'll become complacent and will begin becoming attached to the one girl. This could easily happen, so it's important I keep my head straight and think back to my internal conflicts when I was in a monogamous relationship. But having sex with multiple girls simultaneously is wrong! I think that, on here, we're all probably RedPill enough to understand why people 'spin plates' and see the pitfalls of trying to get into relationships etc.. But, to answer questions specific to me: - I want to challenge myself and prove to myself I'm capable of doing this thing that I once saw as 'only possible for alpha chads and not for me'. - I believe it will boost my confidence (confidence in both my natural, current state, and confidence in hitting on girls both now and in the future - due to now having reference experience) and will help keep my mind focused on more important things than sex; I find my mind is too much occupied with sex, and I believe getting this need met will remedy this. - I believe girls do this naturally, and it's basically seen as taboo for a guy to do it. I believe this is part of feminism and fully believe that it's natural - more natural, actually - for guys to do it due to our biological imperative. - I want new experiences; not just sexual experiences, but experiencing different people and how they act and what their perspectives are on sex. If I cared purely about sexual experiences, I'd be going out more and trying to pull drunk chicks at the club. This is something I do not enjoy doing. And if you find a girl you really 'click' with? Well I hope I will. That's why I think this is an important goal for me: To try and internalize that there are many, many girls out there that I'll click with, and that each one of them are hypergamous and replaceable. I don't mean for this to sound negative, because it's only negative if you judge it as so. Instead, I hope for these to be truly liberating internalizations, as it shows the freedom and power I have over my own life. The challenge will be to not commit to any girl (which includes dropping other plates for the sake of exclusivity, not just LTR'ing). I imagine I'll have conflicts such as 'don't fuck it up with this girl by trying to get with other girls; you don't want to lose this one!', but that just shows a scarcity mindset, and I'll have to be mindful of these conflicts as I go. The only real action step completely relative to the goal is the first, and if you guys can offer other ideas and criticisms of this goal, I'd appreciate it.